Both/and
Previously in these writings we have thought about a concept I call “both/and”. In context this expression has described situations in which our emotions, our conscience or analytical thoughts, or even our actions seem to not be congruent. The psychological term is “cognitive dissonance”. For example, how can we delight in a holiday when we’ve just read of a terrible tragedy? How do we feel joy while grieving the loss of a loved one? Especially in these days of sometimes horrific headlines we can even feel guilty to have moments of personal happiness. During this season when many are celebrating a holy week in preparation for observance of the death and resurrection... Read More →