The silence of love
Last week we discussed the nuances of judgment. The thought we noodled was that we really are judging anytime we presume we know what another person can and can’t do or what they are thinking. Even if not in the sense of rendering our opinion on their character or actions, nevertheless, we are interjecting our opinion on what we think they are like (too busy, not interested). It seems softer but it still is analyzing them based on our opinions. We may think we’re trying to walk in their shoes but what we’re really doing is putting on them our expectations and conclusions about them without really knowing what’s going on in those shoes. We actually could be pleasantly... Read More →